Please help me figure this out. girl problems?

Hunny, everyones first pelvic exam hurts. I know it did for me. Also the first time you use a tampon and have sex it will hurt. The tampon not so much. Just start off with the smallest size and make sure your relaxed when putting it in or else it might hurt even more. Just follow the instructions and you should be fine. But first time having sex will hurt for everyone. Even males. But make sure your wet enough down there and it shouldn't hurt to bad. And make sure he don't go to deep or he can hit your cervix and that can hurt real bad.. But some women like me it still hurts even though you bin sexually active for awhile, it's just some women are too tight and there cervix are lower than others. Make sure the guy don't go to rough either on your first try.. personally, if you were on top it wouldn't hurt as bad as if he was on top. Cause that way you can control the motion and how deep it goes. I hope this helped!! Good luck my dear. And remember don't lose your virginity to someone you don't love or have complete faith in. You don't want one of them men that dine and ditch afterwards.